Are you a little shy when it comes to girls and wish you could be less insecure?
Don’t worry, there’s a big chance that she feels the same! I know, because I am a girl.
Of course every girl is different, but one thing is for sure, she is as insecure as you. Liking you can even make her act a little “drunk”. Giggling, showing off, or maybe the opposite; ignoring you and even acting mean. If you keep these things in mind and look at the signs you’ll know.
Most men find women a mystery; the Venus and Mars principle. So what to do if you’re head over heals in love with girl? You would really like to know what she thinks of you isn’t it? Try to understand what moves her and what her interest level is. If you’d know how to tell if a girl likes you, especially this particular wonderful one, it would give you some confidence, won’t it?
Here are some tips to find out.
First of all, watch her body language. Signs that she likes you; smiling a lot, looking away or down quickly when she sees you (because she is shy), meeting her ‘accidentally’ very often. Here is a trick to test her feelings towards you; if you sit or stand next to her, just move a little closer. If she moves away; she doesn’t like you or is too shy. On the other hand, if she doesn’t move, it means that she’s letting you in het private territory: she’s interested. Lucky you!
Other things to watch out to find if she likes you:
– She laughs at your jokes and she is (suddenly?) interested in the same things as you.
– She brags about you with her friends.
– She gives you her phone number.
– She is willing to help you.
Furthermore, there are some things you can do to find out if she likes you and other things you can do to influence her.
– Smile at her and see how she reacts.
– Start a little conversation with her. This way you can test how she reacts and it’s a way to getting to know more about her. Showing your interest in her will build her self esteem; it makes her comfortable around you. Ask her about herself!
– Ask her about her future dreams, and tell her about yours.
– Take her feelings seriously, it is very important to a girl that she feels that you respect her.
– Buy her a present and see how she reacts to your gift.
– Send her a message; if she replies to it nicely it’s a good sign.
Another word of advice; be yourself. There is nothing more annoying than foolish male behavior and braggadocio.
With a little effort and good observation, you will know if you’re wasting your time or if there may be a future for you both: you’ll know how to tell if a girl likes you.